When someone gets married, they certainly don't expect that the marriage will end in divorce, annulment or legal separation.  When a divorce becomes necessary, it can be one of the most difficult life experiences.   It is crucial that you obtain a qualified divorce lawyer from an experienced top-rated divorce law firm.  Divorce, particularly when children are involved, can be complicated.  The attorneys at Vanden Heuvel & Dineen, S.C. are family law attorneys skilled in negotiating difficult family law matters and fighting for the issues that are most important to the client.

The divorce attorneys at Vanden Heuvel & Dineen, S.C. suggest that you take the following 10 steps to successfully pepare for divorce, legal separation or annulment. 

10 STEPS TO PREPARE FOR DIVORCE

 1.    The most important step in filing for divorce, annulment or legal separation is to select an experienced divorce attorney who focuses on the area of family law. Your divorce is important. You do not want to choose a "jack of all trades" lawyer who is unfamiliar with the trends and laws in the State of Wisconsin. Attorney Linda S. Vanden Heuvel and Vanden Heuvel & Dineen, S.C. have received the highest rating in legal ability and ethical standards and are top-rated divorce, family law, custody and placement attorneys.

2.     Before meeting with a divorce lawyer, think of the questions that are important to you and should be answered in your first consultation. The most important question I ask potential clients is relative to their goals in seeking the divorce. Is custody and placement the biggest issue? Maintenance? Keeping the family home? It is important that you and your divorce attorney are on the same page.

3.    If you have already been served with divorce, legal separation or annulment pleadings, please provide them to your attorney at the initial consultation. Bring your prior divorce judgment, if applicable, as well as any temporary restraining orders or permanent injunctions. You should also be prepared with any prenuptial or premarital agreements between you and your spouse. Paternity and adoption orders are also of significance to your attorney. The attorney will also ask you for the dates of birth and social security numbers of all members of your family.

4.    One of the most important financial tools in any divorce action is your income tax return. The income tax return not only provides information regarding income from all sources, but also information regarding pensions, investments, business right offs, business expenses, etc. Try to provide at least the last three years of any personal and business income tax returns.

5.    Even your latest income tax return does not necessarily provide sufficient insight relative to current income. You should provide payroll stubs for you and your spouse for the last 12 weeks.

6.    If you have access to bank statements or cancelled checks, this information can provide a treasure trove of information regarding income as well as expenses. Is the mortgage being paid? Is money being spent on vacations? Is there a significant other in the picture? While this information does not have to be provided at your initial consultation, if you do file for divorce, annulment or legal separation, your bank statements and cancelled checks may be a significant part of any discovery process.

7.    Pension plan, 401k and IRA documents and statements also provide invaluable information. Because the tax rules only allow a certain percentage of income to be allocated toward retirement, it is sometimes possible to calculate income based on the percentage placed in retirement accounts. These assets are also generally marital accounts, subject to division.

8.    It will ultimately be necessary to provide a list of your assets to your attorney. Real estate information should include copies of deeds, mortgage statements, escrow accounts information, tax bills, etc.

9.    Be able to provide copies of any debts or liabilities. It is important to know in whose name the debts and liabilities are listed, as well as the underlying reason for the obligation. Credit card statements also provide insight into the spending habits of both parties, as well as the ability to pay for that standard of living.

10.    It may be possible to argue that the Court should deviate from a 50/50 property division because of you or your spouse’s premarital assets. Provide your attorney with a list of any premarital assets, including gifts that were made from any family or friends.

The above list is by no means comprehensive, but provides you with basic knowledge relative to the types of documents and information which will aid you in the divorce process.

Vanden Heuvel & Dineen, S.C. divorce lawyers are sensitive to client needs and are effective in achieving results for our clients through a variety of negotiation and litigation techniques.  If you are experiencing a divorce, legal separation or family law matter in the State of Wisconsin, particularly Washington, Waukesha, Ozaukee, Dodge or Door County, you want to make sure that you hire a divorce lawyer who thoroughly understands and practices all aspects of divorce law and is familiar with the recent laws and trends in Wisconsin. 

If your questions about Wisconsin divorce and family law are not answered by the materials on this website or other links, you need a professional consultation with a qualified, experienced divorce and family law attorney.  Vanden Heuvel & Dineen, S.C. offers a free initial consultation which can ultimately save you substantial money, hassle and grief so that you get the information and knowledge that addresses your specific divorce situation.  Feel free to call us or email us for an appointment which will be strictly confidential.

For more information about divorce, please call 262-250-1976 or 1-800-805-1976 or email us for a free-online evaluation  of your case.

Services include litigation in trial courts, negotiated settlements, collaborative divorce, mediation and appeals.  Frequent issues include property division with substantial assets, child custody, placement, removal requests, maintenance and support.